Saturday, August 2, 2008

We plan, He decides..



The idea to write this entry came when an incident occured to one of our friends in Al Jubail. Kak Sarimah's father has gone to meet his Creator on last Wednesday at 2.00pm (M@laysian time). Alfatihah...


Kak Sarimah has planned to visit his 93 year old father in August as that will be the earliest time her husband is allowed to take leave. Currently, the plant is starting up. Everyone is busy and all leaves are freezed. A few days before last Wednesday, She received a phone call from her sister informing that her father was in critical stage. He didn't wake up from bed as he used to. It seems that she can't wait anymore. The husband applied for emergency leave. It was approved. However, all flights are fully booked. The next available flight will only be next week.


Yes, it was sad that a dear daughter wouldn't had a chance to meet the beloved father for the last time. But, what can we do as human. We could plan but He's (Allah) the one to decide. No matter how well our plan is, no matter how early we set things up, if He says NO, that would mean NO. We are bound by an unseen limitation. All we can do is, pray and keep praying, hoping our plan will run smooth without hurdle. Insyaallah...


As for Kak Sarimah, her father is already 'there'. The best thing to do is for her to perform good deeds like reciting Ayatul Quran and dedicate to her late father.


As for me and the rest of us, we need to tawakkal to Allah. We still have a long journey to go. We could plan and struggle to make sure our journey will be like how we want it to be but it will up to Allah. Continue praying for Allah to grant our wish. Insyaallah...

15 sugar & spice:

ad3ck said...

takziah.

Kak Lady said...

Neeza...kita ni macam pakat2 pulak buat entry pasal kematian...

Al-Fatihah buat bapa Sarimah...semoga rohnya dicucuri rahmat...dan ditempatkan bersama orang2 yang beriman...

Takziah dari akak

ADleez said...

kak neeza...

dalam hidup ini....

kaya lawannya miskin..
sihat lawannya sakit..
sibuk lawannya lapang...
muda lawannya tua...
dan hidup lawannya mati...

sesungguhnya hidup ini sebuah perjanjian yg telah ditetapkan sebelum roh kita ditiupkan ke rahim ibu.....
yg pergi tetap akn pergi dan giliran kita akan menyusul jua nanti...Alfatihah.......

ummu asiah said...

neeza..

akak pun selalu terfikir if dpt news mcm ni..mesti kelam kabut nak siap and nak cepat..apa-apa pun yg penting masa ibu bapa kita masih hidup la kena berbakti betul2..tapi kalau dok jauh2 ni..hanya mampu berdo'a dan bertanya khabar saja.

Abahnajwa said...

Neeza..

May Allah bless his soul..Amin..

The irony was emergency leave was only approved in his dying moment..

Tapi..nyata Allah lebih sayangkan dia kan?

Salam takziah untuk Sarimah dan keluarga

zino said...

al-fatihah.. amin..

MULAN said...

al-fatihah.. teringat arwah bapak..

as said...

kita hanya merancang,allah s.w.t yang menentukan..
al-fatihah buat k.sharimah sekeluarga..

Abang Long said...

Setiap detik bersama KELUARGA begitu bermakna.

♥ira♥ said...

Al Fatihah tuk keluarga Allahyarham

Jie said...

Al-fatihah untuk arwah dan salam tahziah utk keluarga, semoga tabah

Neeza Shahril said...

ad3ck,

thanks

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Kak Lady,

haah la.. telepathy kot :)
thanks kak bagi pihak kak sarimah

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Liza,

betul tu liza.. cuma masa yang menentukan masa dan ketikanya kan..

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Kak Ummu Asiah,

tak tahulah neeza macam mana nak hadapinya..

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Abah,

thanks on her behalf

betul tu.. kita merancang tapi Allah yang tentukan..

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Zino,

thanks bagi pihak

Neeza Shahril said...

Mulan,

thanks on her behalf.. Alfatihah juga utk arwah bapak mulan..

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As,

betul tu As..
terima kasih bagi pihak..

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Abang long,

hargainya sekarang kan...

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Ira,

thanks Ira bagi pihak dia

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Kak Jie,

thanks bagi pihak dia Kak Jie..

manje said...

salam akak...

Al-Fatihah... salam takziah utk keluarga kak sarimah, semoga tabah...

Neeza Shahril said...

Manje,

salam manje...

thanks bagi pihak keluarga dia.. :)